I happen to think Opal and Vanquish gave great advice.
FYI-in terms of size; my boyfriend and husband are vastly different in length and girth. While both are enjoyable; neither is preferable. Different activities work best with different sizes.
It really is as frustrating to hear men worrying over the length of their c**** as it is to hear women worrying over the size of their br****. Seriously.
"Love As Thou Wilt"