My ideal poly situation: my husband and I either sharing a home with the rest of the poly family or being just a house or two away (a plot with a main house and mother in law house would be the best since we'd be in the same place and my husband could still know there is space just his or ours).
I would hope for two children (prefer one with each of my men) and I know my poly sister wants two as well. Plan would be to homeschool them.
I would be a housewife, my poly sister would work from home as a counselor (her work dream), and the three men who like working would.
Now if Elle and NT's relationship lead to marriage another house, 2 more kids to school, and a fourth out of the house worker would be added.
What is nice is this long term and highly committed (including commitment ceremonies/poly weddings for the non legal couples) dream of the future is shared by the poly family.
Woodsmith: My husband
Merry: Tig's wife/slave
NT: Merry's boyfriend/owner
Elle: NT and Merry girlfriend
Umbra: Elle's Dom
Pet: Umbra's slave/wife, Elle girlfriend
Domo: Pet's submissive