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Old 04-04-2014, 12:28 AM
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There's "togetherness" and partnership, and then there's being so needy and codependent as to be mentally/emottionally unbalanced - sorry, but what you fantasize about sounds like the latter aand very unhealthy. That kind of relationship is something I would want to protect someone from, not to encourage. Jeez, it's actually little scary, like some kind of imprisonment situation. These thoughts you have are simply irrational and not what a healthy adult would want. Have you considered therapy?
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