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Old 04-03-2014, 11:10 PM
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Eleanor Eleanor is offline
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I am a big fan of the book Sex at Dawn, and also use it in my show. (which I am going to link to now, because, damn it, it's about polyamory!
For me, learning the scientific basis of the desire to have more than one sexual partner helped me feel a lot better about my husband wanting to be with other women. I was able to get over my "what's wrong with me?" story. Super useful. I've met Chris Ryan a few times (helped produce a talk he gave here in Portland) and I wish he'd written more in the book about how he uses this information in his own life. That's part of why I wrote the show. (And part of why i love this forum!) I want to hear more real life examples.
To burn with desire and keep quiet about it is the greatest punishment we can bring on ourselves - Federico Garcia Lorca
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