Originally Posted by Tonberry
Yeah, in the past few months I have received zero messages, but several guys a day "like" me. At first I would check out their profile and send messages to some (although most, well, it was obvious they hadn't read mine. Their profiles were pretty much a list of everything that wasn't me being what they were looking for).
But I never got messages back, so now I don't bother. If they actually want to talk to me, they'll have to send a message, not just "like" me. Frustrating though. Several of them a day and not one willing to send even a couple sentences.
Don't give up, Tonberry. I wrote to Ginger because he'd 4 or 5-starred me, and here we are, 2 1/3 years later, still together. I also sometimes 4 or 5-star men who end up writing to me, and we might have interesting conversations, at least.
I am not saying to message boring men who star you, but there can be rewards from messaging interesting men who star you, or from starring interesting (poly or poly friendly) men.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years