Stop being passive aggressive and tell him the truth.
There is nothing wrong with saying exactly what you want.
I try to not have texting marathons with Murf when it is couple or family time. But on the other hand Butch knows I only get small windows in the day to talk with him due to his job. Murf works 6pm to 6 am and can not text from work other than on his breaks. During the day he is sleeping. I get to talk to him a bit for a half hour to hour period from 4-5pm before he heads into work. For 15 minutes at 9pm on his first 15 minute break. And between bites when he eats dinner at midnight til 12:30am and I am sleeping at 3 am on his final break..
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.
Last edited by Dagferi; 04-02-2014 at 06:28 PM.