Originally Posted by Inyourendo
I won't be a secondary to someone or enter a triad with a couple so monogamous people is really my only option.
Only option? How about people who have other partners but don't view relationships hierarchically or single people who are open to multiple partners?
Personally I don't want to date mono people. Although I have never been in a situation where I was interested in someone mono who would still be interested in me knowing I'm poly, so I guess never say never.. But I prefer people who have similar values/worldview than me and I consider this poly/mono thing to be quite a big deal. I've never even been on a date with anyone who identifies as mono after I started identifying as poly. I meet people mainly at poly meetups/events/parties and through OKC (although I haven't met any of my current or past partners through OKC, just been on a few dates).
Me: bi female in my 30's
Partners: Hank, Dahlia and Fay
Metamours: Eddie (Dahlia's long-term partner)
Living with Hank, Dahlia, Eddie and rory (my ex/friend)