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Old 04-02-2014, 05:15 AM
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I don't meet people who don't find out I am poly before the topic of interest in one another crops up because I am very vocal about my family; which includea husband, bf, kids, grandkids.
There isn't a large community of polys here, and we live in the "Bible belt" of our state.
However- I see no point in deluding myself or someone else abou who I am and what to expect of me. Maybe that was part and parcel of being the black sheep of the family my whole life. I dont know. But it seems like a complete waste of my time to even consider someone unless they know who I am and accept me for who I am.
I had enough headaches and drama to get to the point in my life where I can freely be me. I don't intend to recerse back into the closet.
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