For me, honesty is the biggest component. I don't need to see anyone's day planner or read your texts or get a detailed play by play of your dates. But if I ask you a question answer me honestly. Trust does not equal full disclosure.
Me - bi female hinge of a closed V / developing triad
Hank - my husband of 15 years.
Darla - long distance girlfriend of 1 year.
We have seven dependent children between us.