I definitely prefer quality over quantity. I would rather have a partner take the time they need for themselves, so when they do see me, they're refreshed and feeling able to give more. If they aren't taking time for themself, then they'll be a drain on my own reserves, and that won't be a positive experience for any of us. The last thing I want, when someone is with me, is that they wish they were somewhere else.
“As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.” —bisexualbaker