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What Natja said, just say, "Sorry, not my cup of tea;" it's already quite generous of you to let your husband be with these other women. As for feeling like you're "not enough," I always recommend the book, "Sex at Dawn: how we mate, why we stray, and what it means for modern relationships," by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá. It explains that humans have a natural tendency to fall in love (or at least want sex) with (possibly many) multiple other people. It doesn't matter whether someone is "enough;" the partner simply has a wandering eye and that is a part of human nature.
It sounds like you and your husband have figured out a way of doing things that works for you, so that is good news. I think you are wise to get involved with Polyamory.com because you will find a lot of collective experience and wisdom here.
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