Hi Tiberius - I have brought the idea up a few times over the last few months.
I am pretty much an open book. Part of my struggles with this and the guilt about how I feel has even led me to repeatedly ask him to find a normal woman because I love him enough not to want him to have to deal with this because of me.
He seems to be his calm loving self and wants to look into it if it is what I need and he hopes he can make it work.
Very scary for both of us but I have trouble not trying something that seems so true to me out of fear.