Originally Posted by nycindie
Well, seeing what she said as an insult is your choice. She was offering her stance on how she views certain actions, in general, as a way to help you. I am certain the choice of words wasn't an attack on you personally. You can choose to indulge in feeling insulted or look at the feedback and see if it has validity.
So someone says, in a posting right after mine, that the exact actions I'm describing that a partner has done is ďa douchebag move" and everything's just hunky dory? And im just the one being overly sensitive?
Wow. OK. Where were you in the thread where someone's telling me I'm being disrespectful? How about a little even time?
Me - male, 42, poly, straight, in a serious relationship with Audrey, also casually dating.
Audrey - female, 20, poly, pansexual, also casually dating.