Originally Posted by london
I do indeed think relationships can be kept totally seperate but managing your relationships that way and people being completely opposed to ever sharing space with a metamour brings about limitations and almost forces you into a hierarchical situation.
It's been discussed on here before and many people have a sound ethical argument for not always disclosing right away. I do, but there is some onus on the other person. If you are totally opposed to even consensually interacting with someone partnered, you should ask their relationship status.
Me - male, 42, poly, straight, in a serious relationship with Audrey, also casually dating.
Audrey - female, 20, poly, pansexual, also casually dating.