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Old 03-27-2014, 07:25 PM
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I state I am poly on my okc profile and even link to my spouse's profile. When I am contacted, the first question I'll ask the person is "Did you read my profile"? One reason is the viewer only looks at the pic and sends a message. If the answer is yes, then I ask them if they are ok with poly. Lots of times the answer is "oh yeah, no problem". I still investigate further and see if the questions in okc about open relationships/poly are answered yes or no. Lots of time after they say "ok" I read they said "no" on those questions. By this point...if there is not a good conversation going on...the person is obviously just trying to get in my pants and not worth my time.
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