In an ideal world, I'd have my husband, a serious girlfriend, and maybe another guy (the girlfriend's hubby?) who is a FWB for doing non-vanilla stuff. So far, I have the husband, and just had a promising first date with a guy.
At one point, in my early twenties, I was juggling relationships with two couples, one of which was my primary relationship, the other couple was my secondary relationship, plus I generally had a male of my own on the side. I did not have much time or energy for anything but being a lover. In fact, that's pretty much all I did.
I'm female, bisexual, early 40's
My boyfriend Hal, mid-40's, heteroflexible. He has a 20-something FWB and a couple LDR's.
My STBX-husband Arlo, early 40's, hetero. He has a girlfriend, Dale