In an ideal world, I'd have my husband, a serious girlfriend, and maybe another guy (the girlfriend's hubby?) who is a FWB for doing non-vanilla stuff. So far, I have the husband, and just had a promising first date with a guy.
At one point, in my early twenties, I was juggling relationships with two couples, one of which was my primary relationship, the other couple was my secondary relationship, plus I generally had a male of my own on the side. I did not have much time or energy for anything but being a lover. In fact, that's pretty much all I did.
Female, bi-amorous, mid 40's
on the spectrum between poly-amorous and monogam-ish
girlfriend Melinda, lesbian, early 30's