I am sorry that happened to you. Your request to be in the loop was realistic. Especially when it is something that could affect you. You have the right to be upset and hurt. I hope you heal from this and do not let it sour poly for you. Hugs.
Ry - Me. Panromantic demisexual with a history of polyamorist tendencies. Married to...
Matt (Hubby) - The once distant stranger that I complement beautifully. DH of 13 years and father of our (3.5) children.