What is sick and destructive to me GS (with all due respect
)is that people have become complacent and have normalized affairs and cheating. This is my fear and why I feel compelled to be a hard ass about it everytime it is causally brought up in threads that have nothing to do with the topic. I'm sorry if it comes across as harsh. I do have compassion for those stuck in it. Its all a learning thing and seems to be part of some poly process, but that doesn't make it right and doesn't excuse it. I just don't think it should ever be blown off as nothing. Because it is hugely something to be concerned about.
As for cell phone use? To get back on track :P , I don't have a land line, this phone is it. I have found it an annoying blessing.