Originally Posted by OpenMind
@Marcus, I'm nervous because I'm not sure how I'll feel or react to seeing them together. I'm fine knowing they're together, but actually seeing it - I don't know. And I won't know until it happens. I also don't know how Cindy will react actually seeing me and Betty together. It could all be great, or it could be a fuster-cluck. Of course, we're all hoping for great.
Sounds like you're already dropping the idea of a triad, that was quick.
I get being nervous meeting a metamour, it can be a little stressful. However, fortunately when people are interested in being nice and getting along that is generally what happens. So I'm guessing your meeting will go just fine, certainly without the added stress of a theoretical triad.