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Just for the record, I do not look down the nose at you because of the affair. Polyamory is not widely known and because of that, people often resort to affairs when they would have tried poly if they had thought of it or known about it. The truth is, many poly arrangements start with an affair. It's not the ideal way to start but it's the reality for a lot of poly people.
I think the important thing for now is recovering from a relationship that was not meant to be. If there is any way we on this site can be of help, please let us know.
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