Originally Posted by copperhead
My side of the story is pretty much in Aspergers and poly thread. I did my best at not limiting him but telling him what I'm comfortable with and pushing myself further for him. And he made promises to stay within my limits and let me know if he needed to or wanted to move beyond them so that I could deal with it. He broke both those promises.
Your jealousy issues and his decision making are two separate issues. At least they should be if your interest is actually to grow from the experience.