Originally Posted by YouAreHere
Okay, but when people have seen it used one way, it's pretty unreasonable for someone to expect them to infer another meaning out of it - not without confusion. Getting bent out of shape over it seems counterproductive.
If I (for some odd reason) were in London and went to the gym, then started complaining about how sore my fanny was, I'd have no reason to get upset over people not realizing I mean my *ass*.
No, it's not unreasonable. Especially with a term that's not in common parlance. Your analogy is flawed. That said, I'm not bent out of shape. Hopefully you're not either. I just don't see things your way.
Me - male, 42, poly, straight, in a serious relationship with Audrey, also casually dating.
Audrey - female, 20, poly, pansexual, also casually dating.