Originally Posted by Magdlyn
You're welcome Kernow. In case you didn't notice my posts elsewhere, I have an Aspie bf and father, my daughter has Borderline Personality Disorder, my gf is in treatment for anxiety issues, my bf's wife and 2 adult sons are also Aspie, as are 2 nephews of mine.
Here's a good article on aftercare, in case he hasn't seen this one.
Thanks for the link, I will have a look at it, it never hurts to revisit information that you think you know.
I have a 20 year old Aspie son (by my first husband). Son and husband are very different people and they deal with Aspergers differently. I guess the one thing that both are very clear about is that they like to ask for help and accept it on their terms rather than have it 'done to them' if you know what I mean. I think part of this whole dilemma has been about sorting out in my head that this is one of those situations where I can't just 'sit on my hands' but I don't have to take responsibility for the whole thing either.