You're welcome Kernow. In case you didn't notice my posts elsewhere, I have an Aspie bf and father, my daughter has Borderline Personality Disorder, my gf is in treatment for anxiety issues, my bf's wife and 2 adult sons are also Aspie, as are 2 nephews of mine.
Here's a good article on aftercare, in case he hasn't seen this one.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37