Honesty is the best policy .
My younger kids who were 9&5 when they found out didn't miss a step. My oldest son was taken aback but he is 20 and an adult. He is the one who outed me to family. Oh well.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.