Originally Posted by GalaGirl
But I wouldn't want to compartmentalize for long haul today. At the time having (multiple non-primary) as the open relationship model
was great. I want something else now. It is entirely possible for time to pass and for me to want that model again, though. People are not static -- even oneself.
The relationship model that would best accommodate my sexuality/lovestyle while still preserving my current life-partnership would be a primary/secondary model, where my primary and secondary have little, if any, interaction. Not sure how many people out there are itching to become someone's very discreet secondary, but that's what I'm working with.
Female, bi-amorous, mid 40's
on the spectrum between poly-amorous and monogam-ish
girlfriend Melinda, lesbian, early 30's