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Old 03-23-2014, 09:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Inyourendo View Post
Now sam came over one day thinking I would be home and he and nate hung out for a bit. It was awkward for both but someday I do plan on having sam move in so they will over the years get used to each other.
Have you told these guys your plan? Are they on board?

Arlo says he doesn't want anyone else I date in our home, ever. Since he's the primary breadwinner, I'm not sure I have much negotiation space on that one. On the one hand, I never have people over anyway (small place and I hate housework) but I'd hate the idea that I'd have to sneak someone in if I just wanted to them to see where I live. I mean, you learn a lot about someone by being in their home.
Female, bi-amorous, mid 40's
on the spectrum between poly-amorous and monogam-ish

--Melinda, lesbian, early 30's, dating 1 1/2 years
--Hal, mid 40's, heteroflexible, we dated 8 months, broke up for 1 1/2 years, recently started dating again
--Arlo, ex-husband. I was with him 17 years, still good friends
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