Originally Posted by polycuriouss
I don't ever want to feel like I'm being pushed aside for someone else. I also don't want anyone else in our bed. And I would prefer that we have no overnight stays. I would insist on meeting any person he's dating, and I would introduce him to anyone I dated.
WOW! Talk about getting right into the boundaries. Good job of being honest in what you would need to move foreword. IMO these are all reasonable and indicative of how I think you should proceed if you chose to explore this path while staying focussed on a long term committed relationship involving potential marriage and kids. Just makes sure he is aware of your expectations and is clear on his own.
If you are going to explore this I think this is a great set of basic boundaries to start with