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Old 03-21-2014, 10:02 PM
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Thank you, Kevin. Marriage counselling is not as aggressive. Our therapist believes we are healthy and do not need to see her much or at all. We only go twice a month. Yesterday's appointment was 30 minutes, and we were both like, "This would be a good stopping point." It is not the crutch it once was. I am confident in our abilities to stand on our own feet and utilise everything we have learned. Before we were going every week and each appointment was 90-120 minutes or so. I am fine with checking in quarterly or strictly as needed. We talked about it briefly before he left for the weekend, but nothing is set in stone. I am taking an indefinite break from my one-on-one appointments. Naturally we will continue the weekly family therapy, but that is about it.
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