I am a fan of getting out and socially connecting the old fashioned way... In person.
I have have huge success with it.
Butch socializes with folks he has met on Fetlife.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.