Originally Posted by ate2007
She said she did some processing over the weekend and came to that conclusion.
Wow. I think she did you a favour. The hot and cold and teasing game is very off-putting. She wanted your relationship to be long-term, but she feels no sexual attraction/chemistry? Unless she was aiming for a non-sexual relationship with you and realised it would not work because you wanted physical intimacy, I am not getting that one. Even so, that would need to be expressed, discussed, and agreed upon by both parties. That scenario could work. Who knows? She sounds confused. IIRC, this was her first same-sex relationship, right? I say wish her well and move on.