Originally Posted by FullofLove1052
I am sorry that happened to you. It took her four months to figure that out, but honestly, it is quite possible she really did not know. I wondered that when I first read your posts, but other theories were plausible.
Out of curiousity, did you ask her when she knew that for sure? I am curious as to how long she knew, and if it was for a while, why she dragged her feet and told you that it would happen in x amount of time? Granted for most people, primary attraction is immediate. IMC, that is not so, which is why I say it is possible.
She said she did some processing over the weekend and came to that conclusion.
Me: poly, bi, female, married to COD (9 years total together)
COD: male, poly, currently not dating