To be honest, we were talking one day and realized we both wanted the poly lifestyle. At the time to us poly immediately referred to polygamy, didn't know there was a whole other side that people were already doing, talking about, and ways to meet. We spent a little time trying pof, okcupid, and a few other of the free dating sites/apps. Found people more interested in picture hoarding, than actually getting to know someone. Also quickly realized those places are for freebirds just looking for a good time. Not looking to build a life. Luckily we stumbled across a few people who used the word poly, and one who was even kind enough to explain it. True newbs I know, but embarrassing to admit haha. Just glad places like this, and people like y'all are in fact out there
We are not alone!