Never mind St Pat's day fuck party.
What I want to know is, how long did you and your wife know Freckles before she moved in with you and your 3 young daughters? Why did you not address the issue of what the kids know BEFORE she moved in?
I mean, did you date her for several months? Did she come over and meet the kids, get to know them, bond with them as a friend? Or was she just all of a sudden a stranger moving in? Suddenly a strange woman, for all intents and purposes sharing Mom and Dad's bedroom, strange moaning noises in the night?
It's a shame your wife and you work opposite shifts and therefore you and Freckles spend more time together by default. I'd def feel jealous/envious if I was Curls.
Are you impetuous or do you plan ahead?