I think it's fine to start as a sub, play that way, and learn and understand what a sub likes. Then when you Dom, you know what to do...
The guy I mentioned above flaked out on me. Just another douche masquerading as a Dom. Dom-ass...
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 3 years