Originally Posted by PolyinPractice
I know you're supposed to wait until your marriage/relationship is strong before you open it up? But what happens if you just open it too early and don't realize? What if you only realize all the insecurities AFTER one of the parties in the couple meets someone?
Basically, how do you KNOW you're ready?
All the security and talk really can't prepare you for how you might feel when things open up.