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Old 03-08-2014, 03:42 PM
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Just because your partner says you "have to choose" doesn't mean you have to. You tell them right back, "I won't choose." His issues are his own and he has to deal with them from the inside. Glad you found a poly-friendly therapist.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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