Originally Posted by newpoli
Hello everyone. I'm new here (and to poly) and just wondering about something. How much control do you exert over your partner's other relationships or do you allow them to exert over your relationships?
Control perhaps is not the correct term. If you have a better one for me I'd appreciate hearing it.
Control is probably the appropriate word for what you are describing.
My partners don't work for me, they don't do my bidding, they aren't my kids or my pets... so I exert no control over how they choose to conduct their relationships.