My gf and I have differing views on the result of alcohol. She's stated that if she's drunk and I'm not, she doesn't want to have sex for reasons of consent. If we're both drunk, then anything goes.
To me, if we're in a relationship and you're drunk and telling me you're in the mood, I don't see the big deal. I'm not forcing myself on you. I'm simply following through with what we both want. Again...only as long as you're telling me you want to have sex.
Are there people who get bolder with alcohol? Absolutely. And if you want to get a little uninhibited with the sauce, I don't have a problem with that. Honestly, there are people that for whatever reason really need to calm down when it comes to romantic endeavors...but personal boundaries need to be respected.
Me - male, 42, poly, straight, in a serious relationship with Audrey, also casually dating.
Audrey - female, 20, poly, pansexual, also casually dating.