Originally Posted by kdt26417
They don't seem very strongly motivated to improve things. As long as it is not adversely affecting your relationship with him, I suppose it would be fine to let him make his own decisions about how he wants to conduct his marriage. By the way, have you asked him why he stays in that marriage? Just curious.
It isn't anymore, adversely affecting us, so im ok with it right now and I guess need to stop questioning it. I've asked...he says he's a dedicated person and he married her. stuff like that. That he'd miss out on some stuff....nothing that really makes me understand.