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Old 03-07-2014, 12:31 PM
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OP, the truth is, this situation is just "normal" to me. I remember questioning why my grandfather didn't leave, but that was mybe 10 years ago the last time. They are old, they need each other, and I don't haveto live there. That said, I don't tolerate listening to them snipe at each other. When it gets started, I just leave. I love them both and won't listen to them tear each other down. So, I guess I set my own boundaries with them then took a posture of nuetrality. I don't know if that would be at all helpful for you though.
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