What was it specifically that disgusted her?
I remember being in that limbo place of mourning the loss of my mono time in my marriage. Nerdist did too. The fact of the matter was that there was unhappiness there and the change was for the better. I know it might not seem like it right now, but that change will bring new things to your life and create new opportunities for you as much as her. It doesn't necessarily mean less time together, although often it does. It will mean quality time together and deeper meaning, connection and love between you both. There is something amazing in that and worth it. I hope that that is what you experience. Its early days yet it seems for you. Taking it slow and moving into a new way of being will help. *hugs* you sound like might need one
see already a benefit! Hugs from a strange woman on line