Thank you SC. You are right.
You're discussing the most controversial topic on the face of the earth
Why is treating disabled people like human beings so damn controversial ?
Darn it! It should be easier.
I go back to my original thought. The abled-bodied are terrified of disability. Of what they see as loss of control. I need to be more empathetic and realize that takes a lot to get over and is a true weakness.