Originally Posted by Marco
Criteria? It does sound lighter and I suppose expected in any kind of committed relationship.
My main gripe is when a rule/criteria seems have to faded with time only to come back and cause more imposition. Sort of like a dog who thought he was set loose and sets off running, then bamn!...the leash chokes the crap out of him. Eh, just have to deal with them at a reasonable and comfortable pace for all, huh?
I am really good (pat on self's back) at coming up with creative solutions, but not unless you want to get more specific.
Generally you do have to work with the limitations of the "weakest link" in a chain.
But often times there are ways to strengthen that link.......