Originally Posted by nycindie
Is she having sex with anyone else? Your husband? It sounds like she is being very cautious and just doesn't want the relationship to be focused on sex, or it might be that she's new to sex with a woman and isn't confident or sure enough how to proceed. I think talking about it would be good for both of you.
No she is not and especially not with my hubby - since he's not here in the states at the moment.