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Old 02-28-2014, 01:37 AM
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Originally Posted by jbonjovi View Post
I worry about being rejected and also don't know the easiest way to soften the conversation other than, "hey we don't know each other very well, want to get to know each other, oh and I'm poly and married, but no pressure if you don't want to hang out!"
Well, that's no way to ask anyone out, mono or poly! LOL!

Whatever happened to, "Would you like to have coffee with me sometime?"
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