Balance is tricky. Add in a child and a spouse who does not want said child around partner(s) and you end up with interesting dynamics.
How often do you want to see him? How much is your spouse willing to work with you and him to make that happen? Are work schedules the issue? How old is your child? Do you or your husband have set time for yourselves? It takes work and scheduling. I despised living by a schedule, but is that something you and your partners would be willing to create?
Ry - Me. Panromantic demisexual with a history of polyamorist tendencies. Married to...
Matt (Hubby) - The once distant stranger that I complement beautifully. DH of 13 years and father of our (3.5) children.