I'm glad things are getting better for y'all.
I can sympathize with asking a lot of questions about your partner's encounters as a way of getting a handle on the situation. Of course you can ask too many questions and get annoying and invasive if you're not careful. I'm pretty good at making those questions sound like comradery and casual conversation.
I hope things keep getting better for you both.
Me - male, 42, poly, straight, in a serious relationship with Audrey, also casually dating.
Audrey - female, 20, poly, pansexual, also casually dating.