I'm pretty sure I jumped the gun, that she is simply going through an introspective phase and doesn't know how to communicate about it. It's fucked up. I talked to her husband.
I didn't jump the gun on my emotions though. What bothers me is legitimate. I could have just waited, the willing sex slave, ready to please my mistress at her whim. What I would have given a year ago to even have that option. And to think that I might have just blown it. But I can't just be put on hold like that without any communication. That's not fair.