Originally Posted by seakinganswers
Also, my wife has gained a lot of weight since we got married. Sexiness us a state of mind. Sure he like every man will be initially more attracted to a fitter woman, probably a younger one too. But that doesn't mean in the long run he will find her sexier and even if he does, that sex won't have the intimacy that the two of you have. Sex without intimacy is only fun occasionally. At the end of the day the intimacy you share with him should always have him desiring you. If it doesn't then your relationship probably isn't worth it anyways.
Not much other advice I can offer really. I only wish I was more experienced.
Thanks you for that. It was a really nice thing to read. I need to remind myself of that when I am feeling down.